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Maybe you ate it too fast this time. That happens to
me.

i have seen davinci syrup at walmart in the coffee aisle
Linda
10-21-03

lol, doesn't it feel great!!!! Janis : )

Is Humana the same as Tricare?
Candi

Way to go Jess!!! I know you've been anxious for this! Good luck
sweetie!!
Tanya T.
Lap RNY 6/20/03
432/266/170
Houston, Dr. Adam Naaman
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anywhere to feel like I belong."

Tanja,
Good luck and I am sure it will all work out. I too am doing all of
the fun stuff w/Tricare. We are active duty AF. I had my first
consultation w/the surgeon yesterday. I was so excited until I was
told that as of Feb. 1st Tricare will no longer cover lap gastric
bypass. They have declared it experimental and will only cover open
gastric bypass. The Dr. thought I was a perfect candidate for getting
it done lap but I guess I have no choice if I want it done. It seems
like there are a lot of different instructions to follow with each
base. Here my PCM put in for the referal.....I received it in the
mail a few weeks later. I called the surgeons office for an
appt.....which took 2 mo to get one. Now all I have to do is wait for
them to call me with a date. Which will be no earlier then June
sometime. Also I will have to pray for them to approve it. In the
office visit the psyc. person and nutritionist came into the room one
at a time and got all of that over with really quickly.Are you
getting it done at the Army hospital? If so that would be the big
difference......we have to go down town. Well anyway.....I guess I
did a little venting of my own....lol I wish you all the luck and
let keep me informed how things are progressing for you.
Julie
pre-op
stinardclan5@...

Valor, Vanessa (CCL) would like to recall the message,
"[Gastric_Bypass_Family] Digest Number 1818".

Congratulations girl, That is wonderful.
God Bless,
Robin, NorthEastern, NY
EDD- July 27th, 2004
Mommy to:
Benjamin & Jonathan
(twin boys 7 1/2),
Madison, daughter, 5 years and
Wife to Pup 15 years (October 31, 1988)
Gastric Bypass Surgery-
October 18th 2002
Start-378, current- 246(pregnant)
goal 170 after baby :)

Hi
I will be having an open because my doctor is 9 months booked up for Lap and
I didn't want to wait . My husband will be taking off time from work to help
me when I come home. My question is after I come home from the hospital how
long do you think I will need him to stay off work to help me? I will be staying
3 days in the hospital . I was guessing 3 days - would that be about right?
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Hi, my husband stayed home a week. But My parents were around afterward too,But
I really didn't need anyone. I was great after.. soon as the stitches came out.

I've had my surgery for a year now and since then my mestrual periods
are not as they used to be - every 28 days - now the come even 3 times
in the same month!
Does anyone have this kind of problem or stronger mestrual cramps?
Simone.

<<Subject: Calcium citrate or carb.....
My surgeon told me i could take tums for my calcium...but isnt that
carb....not citrate??
I have heard soo much about us not being able to absorb calcium
carb...is
there a website or something about this?
The following are from MedScape . . . you must register to read MedScape, but
it's free. These are not the best studies, but I don't have much time to search
right now. Hope it helps . . .
Rachel
Calcium Citrate Shown to Have Superior Bioavailability and Protects Against Bone
Loss
New York (MedscapeWire) Nov 21 An important follow-up study that reaffirms
calcium citrate's superior bioavailability when compared with calcium carbonate
also provides new evidence of calcium citrate's role in protecting against bone
loss.
The study, published in the November issue of the Journal of Clinical
Pharmacology, used 3 measures to determine calcium bioavailability serum
calcium, urinary calcium, and serum parathyroid hormone (PTH). This randomized
crossover study compared the single-dose bioavailability and effects on PTH of
commercial calcium citrate 250 mg (Citracal, Mission Pharmacal) and calcium
carbonate 500 mg (Os-Cal, SmithKline Beecham) supplements in postmenopausal
women.
*******************************************************************
"The initial study we conducted in 1999 showed that calcium citrate is more
readily available to the body than calcium carbonate," explained study author
Howard J. Heller, MD, assistant professor at the Center for Mineral Metabolism
and Clinical Research at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center in
Dallas. "We expanded the trial and our measurement methods to determine if one
form of these commercially available calcium supplements was a better choice in
postmenopausal women. We found that the tablet formulation of calcium citrate in
the form of Citracal was more bioavailable than calcium carbonate, even when
given with a meal. Several studies have established that calcium citrate is more
bioavailable than calcium carbonate when the subject is fasting; however, some
authors have previously suggested that the two forms of calcium are equally
bioavailable when given with a meal.
"Moreover," Dr. Heller continued, "calcium citrate produced greater suppression
of serum PTH by more than 50% over calcium carbonate. This provides
physiological evidence that calcium citrate was better absorbed. We additionally
found that calcium citrate may be particularly advantageous in those who absorb
calcium poorly from calcium carbonate."
********************************************************************************\
*******
Parathyroid suppression is critical in maintaining bone because PTH is
responsible for age-related bone loss. When the body senses a deficit in
calcium, it responds to the challenge by increasing PTH levels and leaching
calcium from the bones.
In another study from Mayo clinic, researchers found that calcium citrate
supplementation effectively lowered serum PTH values to those found in
premenopausal women, ultimately protecting them against bone loss.
Dr. Heller and his colleagues compared the calcium absorption of calcium citrate
350 mg (Citracal) and calcium carbonate 500 mg (Os-Cal) after a single oral load
(500 mg calcium), taken with a meal, by calculating the peak and cumulative
change in serum calcium from baseline, offering a direct measure of calcium
bioavailability. Similarly, the curve of decline in serum PTH from baseline over
time was used to assess the ability of calcium supplements to suppress
parathyroid function. To adjust for daily biological variation and the effect of
the meal alone, the value from the placebo phase was subtracted from the
corresponding value for calcium citrate and calcium carbonate, allowing their
actions to be compared independent of these variables.
Research participants were involved in 3 phases of randomized study. For 1 week
prior to each phase, their diets contained an average amount of calcium (400
mg/day), were restricted in sodium (100 meq/day), and caffeine was not allowed.
The purpose of these standardized diets was to reduce the influence of the diet
on response. In 1 phase, subjects ingested a single dose, 500 mg calcium
citrate. In another phase, research participants took a single dose of calcium
carbonate. In the third phase, 2 placebo tablets were taken. In all phases,
subjects were given the calcium supplement or placebo at the same time each
morning with a standard breakfast in the clinical research setting. The
participant's blood was drawn at baseline and obtained every hour for 6 hours
tooo obtain a calcium bioavailability profile. Fasting and post-load urine
samples were also collected.
This study was conducted as a follow-up to a previous study by Dr. Heller,
published in the November 1999 issue of the Journal of Clinical Pharmacology,
which was the first direct comparison of commercially available calcium
supplements. In that study, it was proven that the calcium supplement
formulation calcium citrate was 2.5 times more bioavailable than calcium
carbonate, even when given with a meal, the optimum method of ensuring calcium
carbonate absorption.
"It is very important for postmenopausal women to have sufficient intake of
calcium (1200 to 1500 mg/day) and vitamin D (600 to 800 IU/day) in combination
with a healthy, well-balanced diet and regular weight-bearing exercise," noted
Dr. Heller. "However, since a serving of dairy only provides about 300 mg of
calcium and up to 100 IU of vitamin D, most women are unable to achieve proper
calcium and vitamin D intake via the diet alone. Our data suggests that there is
an important difference in bioavailability between calcium supplements in
postmenopausal women. Careful long-term studies should be done to determine if
there is an equal difference in protection against bone loss and fracture."
J Clin Pharmacol. 2000;40:1237-12

Hi All,
It's been a while since I've logged on here, life has been way
hectic. I had my surgery 02-12-03, it's almost been a year. I can't
quite believe that. I was 360 and am now 220 lbs. (140 lost) I went
into the ER last night with my second bout of biliary colic. Last
time I was discharged with vicodin, this time ibuprofen. Just
wondering if anyone else out there is suffering from the same
problem or is someone knows of a preventative. I'm not really
interested in having my gallbladder taken out at this point. I'm
told to stay away from fatty foods at the ER, the ironic thing is I
do avoid fatty foods as per the diet regimine of GB patients. They
actually discharged me with instructions to eat only fat-free
crackers and egg whites last night. I questioned that and was met
with rude treatment. I explained the necessity of protein in my diet
and was told to follow the discharge regardless of my GB dietary
needs. Needless to say I left frustrated and a little scared. I was
not able to say too much as they administered morphine while I was
there. So, that's one issue. On to no. 2.
A secondary problem I've encountered is my constant hair loss. I've
kept up on my protein, have been taking Biotin, a supplement, and
have been using Nioxin, a shampoo/conditioner/treatment to aid in
hair regrowth. But, I still seem to have too much hair coming out.
Is there anything else I can do???
My other largest complaint is the lack of desire to eat. Often times
I get sick from looking at food and am forced to eat it anyways. I
work out five times a week, two hours a day, and I know even without
counting my workout, I'm not hittin my caloric needs for the day.
I've tried just about everthing out there when it comes to forms of
protein. I think because of this lack of calories I've plateaued and
am currently trying to find a way through this.
In the end, it is a lot of work, but it is totally worth it. If I
hadn't done any of this I would be over 400lbs by now and getting
fatter each day.
So if there is help or suggestion to be had by any of you please
feel free to enlighten me.
Thanks in advance,
Marla
petersonmcee@...
2-12-03
360-220-185
RNY-Fountain Valley, CA
Dr. Chin

Hello!
I am a journalist who is writing an article for a national magazine
on weight loss surgery abroad.
I am looking for people who would be willing to share their stories
about their decisions to seek surgery in Mexico and Europe. I want
to report on all aspects -- good and bad experiences; where you get
follow up care; and what made you decide to pursue it. I can protect
patients' privacy.
Please contact me directly or pass on my contact info!
Thanks,
Sarah Richards
serichards332000@...

Hi all---I am scheduled for an open bypass on Monday. I keep having the
jitters about it all---mostly because i have an very sick 2 year old that
requires
nursing. I do it all of the time and have hired out help for all of next
week and will have help here for several weeks. I just wondered how much
feeling
of doom some of you have. I go in for my presurical ekg tomorrow and I keep
thinking about how it is friday the 13th--then i read about how someones
friend here died after surgery and wonder if it is a bad sign that i just happen
to
read that. I am starting to scare myself i think---and im not a
nutcase---lol---I am a surgical ICU nurse and have taken care of bypass patients
for
years---im just about to chicken out though--anyone else feel like this going
in??---CIndy pre-op 2/16

Andrea, I was all about my hair too. Well, at 300+ lbs it was just about the
only good looking thing I had left! I worried about it when I was researching
too, but in the end, it came down to my health. I figured I'd much rather have
good overall health than just healthy hair. I'm about 6 months post-op, and I
seem to be losing a lot of hair. Well, it looks like a lot to me, but my
husband says I always lost that much. He ought to know because he always has to
clean it off the drain cover (I'm too lazy, and always too late!)! I wear my
hair short and sassy now, which I think helps the appearance. I think most
people would not notice the thinning, but I know. I've always had a ton of
hair, so it bugs me a little. BUT- people notice ME now, not just my hair, and
it feels great! Not to worry...if it's going to happen, it's going to happen.
Like most things with WLS, it too will pass. Sending good hair vibes your way!
-Gina in CA
LAP RNY 07-17-03
324/229/130?

Hello all, Just wanted to say :Thank you all so much for the prayers and the
words of advice. They have helped me get thru this set back alot. You are all a
GOD sent. Have a great week all. I will let everyone know how the scope thingy
comes out tomorrow. GOD bless you all. you are in my thoughts.
Stacy Beck
Galesburg,Il.
Scope date Thursday Feb,19.2004 6.30 a.m.
409/ FEB,18,2004 I AM 399.4..
/someday195

Hey -- I go in next friday and I am feeling the same way that you do
I have even started to make my self sick with this. I can't think
about anything else right now, all the what if's. We just have to
believe that we are doing the right thing for our health and for our
families and that the lord will see us through this on way or
another. Please keep us posted i really want to know how you make
out. I will be praying for you on monday.What time do you go in .

Cindy, you got your hands full. i hope everything goes smoothly for you...mimi
rn4maknme@... wrote:Hi all---I am scheduled for an open bypass on Monday. I
keep having the
jitters about it all---mostly because i have an very sick 2 year old that
requires
nursing. I do it all of the time and have hired out help for all of next
week and will have help here for several weeks. I just wondered how much
feeling
of doom some of you have. I go in for my presurical ekg tomorrow and I keep
thinking about how it is friday the 13th--then i read about how someones
friend here died after surgery and wonder if it is a bad sign that i just happen
to
read that. I am starting to scare myself i think---and im not a
nutcase---lol---I am a surgical ICU nurse and have taken care of bypass patients
for
years---im just about to chicken out though--anyone else feel like this going
in??---CIndy pre-op 2/16

Hi,
My mom stayed with me for a week. And I was so glad that she was
here. Unfortunately my husband was not home...he is in the Army and
is currently serving in Iraq. I would definately say a week would
be good. Be sure to walk walk walk...it really does help to heal
faster.
Good luck
Shelley D

Hey Karon,
My prayers are with you, and I pray you have a speedy recovery. See you on the
other side!!
God Bless
Peaches
karon7744 <karOn7744@...
Well I will be hitting the road in an hour..It feels so sureal. I do
not know how I feel...I will be back on line as soon as I get
home..Keep warm...Kisses karOn xoxoxo

Hello Everyone,
Well my Dr's nurse is sending me out Diagnostic forms today. So that
way I can start on all of my testing. She says I will have to get
three x-rays done, a breathing test, a EKG, and a Upper GI. Do any of
these things hurt, other than the X-rays. I am totally going in to
all of this testing stuff blind. And would love any kind of feed
back. I also have to go in and do my psych test soon. She says its
like over 500 true and False questions! I am going to be there for
awhile. She is also already getting my approval from Tricare. For
those of you who use Tricare, are they pretty easy..I mean do they
pretty much approve of your surgery?
Thanks for everyones help!
Take Care
Chasta
pre-op

Kris
my doctor perscribed rockcicet not sure i spelled it right. i don't know if it
has codiene or not but it is a liquid.
Kris from PA ksbowser89@...
Kris A <babyfemmey@...
I am also allergic to codein and my doc gave me
Hydrocodone. The nurse told me the only thing stronger is
morophine. It worked pretty well but I still felt a little
pain. I tried not to take as much though in order to space
it out so it would last longer so I didnt do the full
dosage 3 teaspoons every 4 hours. I only took the full
dosage before I went to sleep so it would get me through
the night without having to get up to take another dose.
Kris
******************
Date: Wed, 28 Jan 2004 20:46:41 EST
From: MichiganFRS@...
Subject: Re: Re: Approved
Hi
Thanks. Was wondering what pain medication everyone got
after surgery? I know
my doctor gives the stuff with codeine and I'm allergic to
Codeine. Was
wondering if anyone else was allergic to codeine if so what
did they take? I take
Darvocet for my arthritis but that doesn't come in chewable
or liquid. Does
anyone know if worst comes to worst if it can be crushed
up? Thanks

Hello everyone.
Hope everyone is doing good tonight. I am (((hoping to have)) surgery next
Wednesday the 18.if my test comes back ok.my question is . What I need when I
come home from hospital? I am trying to get things now....I know I have a few
things like broth packets. but not much else.I had a list before and it got
taken off here when our computer crashed last month. so I need some help again.
I am so glad everyone of you persons are so nice and helpful specially with
people like me big pains in the butt.thank you all.
have great week and weekend.
Stacy Beck
Petra Fashions Consultant
Surgery Date : FEB.18.2004
406/ 400.1 as of Feb.,10,2004 Melinda was so happy /someday195

Hi
I was asked to send this message Tawyna e mail addy is
trite40362@... She told me her mail stoped she was bounce due
to too much mail she was away all weekend and would like her mail to
start coming again so if someone can help her with this she would be
happy...
Thank you
Pat

HI BOB:ummm have you tried carnation instant breakfast.It is not hi in protein
but my doctor told me that i can mix it in with any shake.They do have sugar but
as long as there is no sugar added its ok.They have different flavors and i dont
think they taste bad at all. You should try them and let me know........AMY
An Astoundingly Ordinary One <deppitybob@...
me today while I was making myself yet another yummy
protein drink with "flavorless" protein. I'm not that thrilled with the flavor
or aftertaste
of it, but it's 17g of protein in one scoop, so I like it. What I do, though, is
put a
packet of Splenda in it and a couple of drops of vanilla extract, and voila, I
have a
protein drink that actually tastes better than this vanilla protein drink I have
been
using. So I started thinking: why not combine unflavored protein with sugar-free
Torani or DaVinci syrups?
Wouldn't that be good if it worked? Instead of having to deal with the usual
chocolate/vanilla/fruit flavors, imagine having a hazelnut drink. Or macadamia.
Or
coconut. Or cola. Or butter rum! They have a bezillion flavors--shouldn't some
of
them work with unflavored protein? Let me know your opinion! I'm going to try
it!
Dep
525/?/230
Dr. Keith Millikan
Rush University Medical Center, Jan. 9th

That's funny, I have a close friend who told me one day that I looked like a bad
lady cause my jeans were too baggy. Back in 97 I was wearing a size 8 and now I
wear size 18 and I'm 5'1 and that's stretching it. I can't wait till the time
comes when u start seeing it come off and getting smaller sizes every month.
But thanks to the long waiting list for this surgery no telling when they will
schedule me for it. I never realized that there were that many folks in the
world that was having this surgery. I never thot I would but when I started
researching it and saw that in 90% of the cases can go off their blood pressure
pills and also in time coming off your diabetes that's what got me excited about
having the surgery. Then there's the plus that u can also get rid of those
pounds and can buy your clothes off the rack and u will have so much more
energy. How many times do u see the surgeon after the surgery?
Be on the lookout for those bargains and hey Victorious secret here I come lol.
Tricia
Candi Read <candiread@...
OH and girlfriend you WILL need new clothes!!!!!! You will WANT them even
worse. I have never been big into buying clothes. Well at least since I
stopped working outside of the home. I didn't even buy much after surgery
at first until I could just no longer wear anything and people were starting
to make comments that I needed to buy something.
I bought some new jeans at a thrift store and I haven't stopped shopping
since. Of course I am kinda cheap and hate to waste money so I buy alot on
clearance racks. But I also buy clothes that are my goal size and man I
think I have a half of a closet filled already!!!!
Candi

MEGAN: Try to look for hidden (and those a little more obvious) carbs and
eliminate them. Replace them with protein. When you are closer to goal you
can probably slowly begin adding carbs back.
BECCA: Do you know what problems are interferring with your sleep? Is it
pain? A lot of people sleep in a recliner for a while so as not to lay flat.
Worth a try?
SOUTHERNANGELSPC: I have seen my surgeon on each and every visit. He takes
the time to answer questions and ask a few of his ownl He is VERY
interested and very hands on with each of his patients. If I were in your
shoes, I would be a little more demanding. This is important and something
all pre-ops should ask about before settling on a surgeon.
lallshouse: By liquid diet I am assuming you mean FULL liquids. To
Candi's list, add cream soups, higher the protein the better. My fav was
cream of chicken. I also liked pureed bean soup and found it to be very
filling. The eating plan given to me (and whoever said there are as many of
those as members on this list) was for 3 small meals a day from the list
plus a snack of a protein shake between each meal, beginning with 1/2 cup
each for a week to 3/4 cup between meals the next week to 1 cup. My fav is
Atkins in the cans.... Convenient, and best tasting to my buds as well as
best ratio of protein (20 gms) to sugars (1 gm) per 11 oz can.
Pain varies from person to person and is something she should discuss with
her surgeon. He needs to know and can either make suggestions or calm her
fears.
I was making hallway treks as often as possible in the hospital and 4 days
post op at home was walking a mile in the morning and a mile in the evening.
Again, she should check with her surgeon as to when to swim, workout, etc
because again everyone here has been told something different. My surgeon
insists on only walking for first 6 weeks while the organs inside heal, then
gradually begin resistance exercises. I forget how long before swimming
because it was too cold anyways.
Your friend should make a list of questions and bring an extra copy so both
of them can cover the list together.This way he can combine like concerns
with same answer.
JESSICA IN MI: Congrats and a big hug. You go Girl
Now I would like to address something else all together. I belong to
several groups and the top thing that turns me off and sends me
unsubscribing is having to wade through soooo many unnecessary repeated
posts. It would help when replying that you delete all or part of the

I have a horrible deep chest cough, sore throat and a dripping nose.
I feel like I've been hit by a truck. Can I take Tylenol Cold &
Flu? This is what I have on hand. If not, can someone please tell
me what I can take?
Lori

Megan/Rose -
What do you want us to call ya, woman? Did I get this wrong, or do you have 2
names? :o)
I don't think 33 lbs in 10 weeks is bad, but I think you could bump it up, by .
. .
1. Dropping the milk, juices - both are very high in sugars, no real food
value.
2. Adding protein shakes - very low to no sugar ones, available at
Vitalady.com.
3. Cutting your simple carbs intake. Try taking your egg and chicken salad on
a lettuce leaf, or celery stix, or cucumber slices, instead. I eat the topping
from a slice of pizz, but rarely eat any crust. Add some veggies, in place of
the simple carbs.
Simple carbs - sugars (even from milk, fruit & juice) will make you hungrier in
a couple of hours. They will make you crave later. It takes a couple of days
(usually 3) to detox, and get past the cravings, but then you'll be much better
off.
Protein shakes will provide instantly available fuel for your body to burn fat,
and to build muscle. I do 6/day, but recommend that proximals and medials do
3-4/day. Make them so that you get 30 grams of protein (not powder) per shake.
Good luck - I think you'll be happier, healthier with the above plan . . . :o)
Rachel

Rachel Hawkridge in Washington State.

Melody, Congrats on the date!!!!! Best of luck to you~~~ Keep us posted!!!
sherri

I have some questions about leading up to the surgery. What all do they require
u to do pre-op, like what tests and how many different folks u have to see
before they are ready to schedule the surgery and once the surgery is approved
how long it is before they set u up for your surgery. I don't even have an
appt till June, and I'm not good on patience so I hope the time flys by. May
God bless each one of u that are having your surgery done this coming week, that
all turns out well for u.
Tricia in AL
n_waters27 <n_waters27@...

- Hey Debbie,my name is Phyllis and I had surgery Jan 22. I've only
lost 23 pds so far. I weighed 280 to start with.How much did you
weigh? And what all are you doing and eating? Phyliis in Mont. AL.

Glad to hear it Hope!!!
Candi

--Stacy
What you should only get is diet jello, broth, and most of all drink
your bottle water. That is what you will be on for 3 wks but also do
it with your dr's suggestion. Every hospital is different. Hope this
helps..
Wendy

How far post-op are you?
I was able to take Da-quil and Ny-quil when I got sick at about 8
weeks postop. Just sip slowly as these may contain sugar and
alcohol. I took 1/2 dose, waited about 3 minutes then took the
rest. I think Tylenol cold meds would be OK too. I ended up with
bronchitis, so see your doc early for the deep cough.
Feel better!
Alicia
11/18/03
284/249 preop/202/?

I agree with you, that it does suck to have any complications, but
thank goodness it is minor. If worse comes to worse and you have to
go into the hospital, you may have to take a cab. (I had to with the
birth of my first child!)

In a message dated 2/18/04 12:51:08 PM, cgoone@... writes:
<< She says I will have to get
three x-rays done, a breathing test, a EKG, and a Upper GI. Do any of
these things hurt, other than the X-rays.
Chasta--none of these things hurt except the 500-word MMPI, lol! They will
all take up your time, but seriously, none of them hurt.
Brenda J.
Mankato, MN
RNY 12/99

I beleive all tylenol products are okay. Just stay away from aspirin and
motrin type products. Hope you feel better.
ROBIN, NEW YORK
AGE-41
OPEN RNY
OCT. 18TH, 2002
DR. EDWARD HIXSON
SARANAC LAKE, NY
378/246/170??? On hold for now due to pregnancy :)
132 LBS GONE FOREVER : )
What a GREAT feeling : )
Currently pregnant with #4-
Due July 27th, 2004 :)

Jessica, that is great. My computer has been down so not able to post
until today, but first order of business is to say the doctor's
office called me yesterday, and said I was approved also! I do not
have a date yet. The doctor's office has some more business with teh
insurance company first, but it shouldn't be long. Janet in Miami, FL

Hello everyone! I'm 2 weeks post-op today and was wondering how soon
after surgery people were able to comfortably sleep on their
stomachs. I had Lap done on 1/30 and have always slept on my side or
stomach. I'm having a horrible time sleeping because I can only lay
on my back. HELP!!!!
Kathy
Lap Rny 1/30/04
327/305/?

Dear Allan,
I was allowed to go back on whole pills at 3 weeks out from surgery.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/212/165
BMI 60/31/24
-174
-100"
Angel to Bill, Debbie, Ilene, Roy, and Ro

I use Ambien 10 mg. It's the best i've ever used. And also , have you
had the sleep amina test.You might need too , it's help me. I use a c-
pap machine at night . it helps 110%. Phyllis

Angela, I'm laughing quietly, because I feel the same way. It's really an
incredible journey, and I'm ever so thankful to have a place to vent,
listen, learn daily.
Joan
LAP RNY 11/18/03
Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA
282pre-op/275surg/236/140

HELLO PATTY, MY NAME IS MIMI..LET ME KNOW WHAT RESPONDS YOU'LL GET BECAUSE SOON,
I WILL BE IN CONFUSED SHOES ASWELL...MIMI
Patty Mays <pmays_4_jesus@...
in Feb not sure what to expect

4 day post op having problem with gas and constipation
please help.

I slept in a recliner the first week, that was the week I had the drain.
And within one week after taking the drain out, I was able to slowly
start sleeping like on my stomach but one leg up higher so that it is
more like on one side of your stomach...I too am a stomach sleeper, but
find that is changing as I lose weight as well. Don't give up
hope....it will get better!
Carol Matar
Post Op 10/31/03
Dr. Adam Naaman - Houston, TX
405/320/135
85 pounds gone forever!

For those of you who say you drink 6/8 protein drinks a day.First of all When
did you have surgery and how much weight have you lost (Just curious if the
added protein is helping from others i have talked to...even though I know
everyone is different) second Do you mean scoops or actual drinks? because I
mix
mine 2 scoops at a time (35 grams of protein) and drink 2a day Which is 70
grams of protein. Plus what I eat in foods! I am required to get 80 by my
surgeon. If its a day where I can not eat as much I do 2 1/2 of these
shakes..which
is equal 5 scoops of protein powder (87.5 grams of protein)...Should I increase
this? The weight loss has slowed down A LOT. I am 3 months out and I am
loosing on average 3 pounds a week right now.
Also, Anyone know if i had to take thyroid meds before surgery and have not
been put back on them yet if that would slow the weight loss down? I am waiting
on a call back from my surgeon. That was one of the questions I had yesterday
but the teeny bopper didnt know the answer to that one either!!
Thanks...You guys are the best!!
Crystal
11/18/03
365/290/2nd mini goal 250

My insurance paid soley based on my weight also. I am perfectly healthy
other than weighing 300 pounds on a 5'5" frame. It took me 2 weeks to get
approved. I think it is sad how many people can get denied and have alot worse
things than myself. There should be something that can be done---CIndy

Try some milk of magnesia for the constipation. The gas is not something
that is really able to be helped. It's pretty normal following this
surgery. You could try GasX or Beano...it might help but it's doubtful.
Tanya T.
Lap RNY 6/20/03
432/281/170
Houston, Dr. Adam Naaman
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"I will find my way, I can go the distance. I'll be there someday if I
can be strong, I know every mile will be worth my while, I would go most
anywhere to fell like I belong."

HI MINDY, SORRY I DIDN'T REPLY IMMED. I SPOKE W/ A KAREN AT THE U.S. BARIATRIC
CENTER THAT IS LOCATED AT CELEBRATION, ORL.--ANYWAY SHE TOLD ME THAT THEY DO NOT
HAVE A PROVIDER- SO I HAVE TO TALK TO MY MAIN PROVIDER TO GIVE ME REFERRAL
--THEN THEY CONTACT MY INS. AND NEGOTIATE SOME DEAL WERE I DON'T HAVE TO PAY
EXCEPT FOR THE ROOM AND THAT'S ALSO ASSUMING I GET FULL COVERAGE. ALL LABS AND
PSCH. WILL BE IN FT. LAUDERDALE AND THE SURGEON ON PREMISES IS DR.KIM--KEEP ME
POSTED ON WHAT ELSE YOU FIND OUT...DON'T WORRY ABOUT YOUR PLATEU--JUST THINK OF
ALL YOU HAVE ACCOMPLISHED..I BET IT HAS NOT BEEN EASY..TAKE CARE MINDY
ehmjc1014@... wrote:Mimi
I go to the Ft. Lauderdale office, since I am down here in south florida, but
the one girl who I spoke to for hours before my surgery had hers done by Dr.
Benitez and she LOVED him. he is now in Orlando...Hope this helps.....I still
have a while before I get to my goal, but I have hit a major
plateau......have lost a pound in a month........Talk to you soon
Mindi
277/173.5/125??
Lap RNY 6/26/03

Sent this yesterday and had absolutely no responses, so trying again today.
Both these topics have come up so I thought I would get a professional input.
Hope it helps eliminate some of your confusion
Marion,
Looking forward to seeing you on Thursday. You certainly are working hard
and have some good questions. We can discuss some of these issues at the
support group.
Gastric patients really need to focus on protein, since many have a hard
time meeting their protein needs, about 60-85 grams per day. It looks like your
shake has about 76 grams of protein and twice that seems pretty high and hard on
your kidneys. How many calories does it have? I'm convinced that assuming you
are getting adequate protein, its calories that determine whether you gain or
lose weight, though plateaus do occur. Since I focus on calories, counting
carbs is irrelevant. Sugar alcohol is a sugar that is not absorbed, so you
don't have to count it. Because it is not absorbed, larger quantities it may
result in some gas or diarrhea. We can talk about this at the support group.
See you then. Tricia

Since I find most of the flavored protein a little too sweet, I couldn't stand
the syrups in flavored proteins. So I make a "base shake" with 1/2 scoop of
vanilla (adds creaminess, vanilla), and one scoop of SciFit Plain. TO this I
add syrups . . . drank a lot of eggnog (eggnog syrup, brandy extract, nutmeg)
this holiday season. I love Toasted Hazelnut, Brandied English Toffee, Spiced
Chai . . .
It works well for me . . .
Rachel
Subject: A Protein Idea...let me know what you think!
Something occurred to me today while I was making myself yet another
yummy
protein drink with "flavorless" protein. I'm not that thrilled with the
flavor or aftertaste
of it, but it's 17g of protein in one scoop, so I like it. What I do,
though, is put a
packet of Splenda in it and a couple of drops of vanilla extract, and
voila, I have a
protein drink that actually tastes better than this vanilla protein
drink I have been
using. So I started thinking: why not combine unflavored protein with
sugar-free
Torani or DaVinci syrups?
Wouldn't that be good if it worked? Instead of having to deal with the
usual
chocolate/vanilla/fruit flavors, imagine having a hazelnut drink. Or
macadamia. Or
coconut. Or cola. Or butter rum! They have a bezillion
flavors--shouldn't some of
them work with unflavored protein? Let me know your opinion! I'm going
to try it!
Rachel Hawkridge in Washington State.

Keep pushing the liquids and walk, walk, walk... It helps. Remember
there's not much going into your body. My doctor told me I won't go
every day. I'm a week out now and went about 2 days without going.
For later on I was told no Milk of Mag. or similar products. Instead
to take colace or senokot. These are stool softeners vs. laxative
(Milk of Mag).
Kathy
Lap Rny
1/30/04
327/316/?

the good news is i finished my physical performance eval. the
doctor's office is going to send my test results and medical records
to my insurance co., so i'm almost there! my dilemma is...i see
greener pastures in another job, about $6000!!! i've applied for the
job but what do if i'm selected for this job, and my surgery is
approved for after i leave my current job? i want this new job but I
don't. With the new job, it's a totally different insurance, i'd
hate to start the process over for the 3rd time (meaning, my current
job switched insurance co's on 1/1/04, and i had to send all my info
to a difference insurance, and if i leave this job for another then
i'll have to put surgery on hold again). hmmm.

Dear Group,
I just found out that the Texas Legislature has stated that because the
number of deaths attributed to Weight Loss Surgery, IT IS NOT COVERED by Texas
Medicaid. So until I can figure out where to go from here, or what to do, I may
have to drop out of these mailing lists until further notice. The only thing
that I can really count on doing perhaps is Overeaters Anonymous. I will have my
subscriptions open for awhile untill I can have something else in place.
Jason-- Perminate Preop :(

Hello all.
My name is Connie, and I'm from Granite City, Illinois. I have been
EVERYWHERE, including obesityhelp.com, I just can't seem to find a
surgeon in or around St. Louis (10 min. from me).The problem is that
I'm on Medicaid, and no one seems to want to help. I'll be getting
Medicare in October, and New Start said it would be about 4-5 months
AFTER that to get the surgery!! By then I'll be 500 lbs! My meds
cause me to gain, so I'll be very unhealthy by then. So it's up to
Medicaid, but like I said....nothing. Any help out there??
Thanks!
Connie
313/hopefully 120

hello stacy, i have read that on the first week you need bottle water, sugarless
jello, clear broth, and even sugarless popsickles for dessert--i guess..mimi
stacy beck <myhumingbird@...
Hope everyone is doing good tonight. I am (((hoping to have)) surgery next
Wednesday the 18.if my test comes back ok.my question is . What I need when I
come home from hospital? I am trying to get things now....I know I have a few
things like broth packets. but not much else.I had a list before and it got
taken off here when our computer crashed last month. so I need some help again.
I am so glad everyone of you persons are so nice and helpful specially with
people like me big pains in the butt.thank you all.
have great week and weekend.
Stacy Beck
Petra Fashions Consultant
Surgery Date : FEB.18.2004
406/ 400.1 as of Feb.,10,2004 Melinda was so happy /someday195

Hi Marla - I'm a pre-op so I probably can't offer much real help,
but I just wanted to offer some support. Sounds like you have been
working very hard. I will probably have my gallbladder out during
my RNY, as I already have pain and a gall stone.
Will keep you in my thoughts.
Jayne
Lap RNY 3/12/04

Andrea, as soon as I saw your words about dizzy and peeing, it clicked. If
I remember right, there were 11 symptoms of Diabetes, and I had either 9 or
10. I certainly hope it isn't the case for you, but you'll know soon from
the blood work. If it is, it's certainly helpful with that diagnosis to get
the surgery.
I would certainly think even though your doctor doesn't know any of the
surgeons that take your insurance, they exist. And in all probability he
has a list of them. For insurance to cover, generally you need a referral
from your pcp. Maybe a talk to your doctor about referring you. If nothing
else, he should be able to give you a list that you can research. I've
never had to find a referral doctor myself, and never had to contact my
insurance either. But if the doctor won't help you, that's another avenue.
By taking your particular insurance, your doctor is accepting their "list of
referral doctors" and should indeed have a list.
Joan
LAP RNY 11/18/03
Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA
282pre-op/275surg/236/140

HELLO JASON, DON'T GIVE UP YET. WONT YOUR INSURANCE COVER OUT OF STATE? DON'T
DROP OUT OF THE GROUP. WE ARE HERE FOR WEIGHT LOSS SUPPORT REGARDLESS OF HOW IT
HAPPENS?....MIMI
starbear212004@... wrote:Dear Group,
I just found out that the Texas Legislature has stated that because the
number of deaths attributed to Weight Loss Surgery, IT IS NOT COVERED by Texas
Medicaid. So until I can figure out where to go from here, or what to do, I may
have to drop out of these mailing lists until further notice. The only thing
that I can really count on doing perhaps is Overeaters Anonymous. I will have my
subscriptions open for awhile untill I can have something else in place.
Jason-- Perminate Preop :(

Dear Dep,
The Davinci syrups in the protein powder are a great idea and help to
make them more palatable. I have a flavored protein that I love
(Champion Pure Stack Whey in chocolate or moccachino) and I add Davinci
to them all the time to give them a different kick. My protein mixes
easily and has 23 grams to one scoop.
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/207/165
BMI 60/30.6/24
-179
-100"
Angel to Bill, Debbie, Ilene, Roy, and Ro

Hey guys,
I am 8 months post op and have discovered that I can eat
ANYTHING! The last couple of days my body has seriously been craving
food! I have had my share of ups and downs when it comes to control
with food...but these last couple of days has just been KILLER! Even
though in comparison to pre surgery I am not eating nearly as much as
I was, I still hate that feeling of being out of control. It scares
me to think that I may be returning to my old habits....sure, today I
binged on a snack pack of doritos...but 2 years from now who's to say
it won't be an entire bag! And the sucky thing is...I don't get sick!
I can have a HUGE amount of carbs (what would be considered huge
after surgery)and it doesn't seem to bother me one bit! I think this
scares me more than anything. I work out like a maniac 6 days a week
so I think that is what has kept me on the losing side this whole
time. But I still hate being a slave to my cravings. I know cutting
out sugar can "detox" me, but I do that and for no rhyme or reason I
have strong cravings again!!!!!! Anyone else experience this? And if
so, how do you deal?
Thanks!
RaeShel;O)
373/193/155?
Surgery June 6th, 2003

valencia, sounds to me like you are going to put one of your choices in the back
burner..you choose the job you are definately going to start the whole process
over and not knowing what has to be met w/ that insurance company. when is your
surg. date? have you heard anything about the job yet?..mimi
valencia29@... wrote:the good news is i finished my physical performance
eval. the
doctor's office is going to send my test results and medical records
to my insurance co., so i'm almost there! my dilemma is...i see
greener pastures in another job, about $6000!!! i've applied for the
job but what do if i'm selected for this job, and my surgery is
approved for after i leave my current job? i want this new job but I
don't. With the new job, it's a totally different insurance, i'd
hate to start the process over for the 3rd time (meaning, my current
job switched insurance co's on 1/1/04, and i had to send all my info
to a difference insurance, and if i leave this job for another then
i'll have to put surgery on hold again). hmmm.

Connie we are very close!!!! I am in Breese (Clinton County) which is up
near Carlyle.
Candi

Try this little test:
Take a small water balloon and pour about 3-4 oz. of soda into it. Tie
it off and watch while you move it around just a little.
Now think to yourself..... do I want this to happen to my new tummy?

Dear Maria,
NOT eating enough protein will stall or stop your weight loss. You have
to get in enough protein so your body burns the weight off...
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/212/165
BMI 60/31/24
-174
-100"
Angel to Bill, Debbie, Ilene, Roy, and Ro

Hi All
The results of my endoscopy showed some problems with my esphohagus,
somy surgery is postponed. I have something called Barrett's
esophagus and relly bad GERD. I have to take double Prevacid for
three months and repeat the endo. The Barrett's is a forever thing,
but they need to get a clear read on whether I have pre-cancerous
cells or not. They can't now because the inflamation is so bad. If
I have pre-cancerous cells, no surgery.
I a sooo upset. My original date was March 12, less than a month
away.
I know it's all for the best, but it is really hard to take. If
anyone has had a similar experience, I would appreciate hearing from
you.
In general, I could use some hugs
Thanks
Jayne
Lap RNY 6/21/04 (I hope)

hey guys. what is davinci's syrup and where can i get it?

Dear Mary,
I hope you don't mind an "I told ya so" from me. If you remember, we
started at the same weight and we were both wheelchair bound. If you
remember I told you of my progress and now I'm 100% out of my chair. I
have complete faith that you will be too. Keep us up to date on your
progress. You are doing wonderfully...
live each day like it's your last... love like you've never been hurt...
Deb in Hazlet, NJ
"Debbie Dancer"
distal rny
September 3, 2002
386/212/165
BMI 60/31/24
-174
-100"
Angel to Bill, Debbie, Ilene, Roy, and Ro

In the hospital I started to use Avinza; a new long acting morphine
[micro beads inside capsules.] I cannot tolerate Demerol, Vivodin,
codine, and others due to adverse effects. Even the morphine they
gave me IV affected me by giving me the worst headaches that were
more acute than the surgical pain. Until the head Pharmacist came to
consult, I had had to discontinue utilizing any pain medications for
the first three days in ICU [on a ventilator 2 days]; I was in ICU 4
out of the 5 days I was in the hospital post-op [I had a gastrectomy
in addition to the Roux-en-Y.]
I continue to take Avinza 15mg twice a day for the pain of arthritis
and degenerative disc disease. It has made a vast difference in the
level of pain I experience everyday, and I do not notice any
cognitive difficulties...that is, although I am on pain medication,
I am totally alert and non-drowsy, and my motor skills are not
affected adversly.
After surgery I was still sore when I moved around in bed, but the
medication took away the surgical pain.
What I did post-op is open the capsule and sprinkle the micro beads
over a spoon full of applesause; then I swallowed the applesause and
capsule contents. This worked very well and was easy to get down.
Lynda

Candi,
Did you have Medicaid?

JAYNE, i'm so sorry you are going thru these health issues..i'll be praying for
the best for you..sending you lots of hugs and kisses..mimi
positivejc <jcapers@...
The results of my endoscopy showed some problems with my esphohagus,
somy surgery is postponed. I have something called Barrett's
esophagus and relly bad GERD. I have to take double Prevacid for
three months and repeat the endo. The Barrett's is a forever thing,
but they need to get a clear read on whether I have pre-cancerous
cells or not. They can't now because the inflamation is so bad. If
I have pre-cancerous cells, no surgery.
I a sooo upset. My original date was March 12, less than a month
away.
I know it's all for the best, but it is really hard to take. If
anyone has had a similar experience, I would appreciate hearing from
you.
In general, I could use some hugs
Thanks
Jayne
Lap RNY 6/21/04 (I hope)

I wanted to post a positive side to hair loss.
It's been a couple month's since it's basically stopped the drastic
loss. Now it's just at a normal type of falling out that I notice when
brushing my hair. I've recently noticed that there is so much new
growth, I can see it sticking up, out and all around after I blow dry.
The coolest thing is..... VOLUME!!! Even without using any 'product',
the new growth that varies from 1/2" to 2" adds volume to my hairstyle.
This is important to me as my hair wasn't the thickest to begin with,
but now my ponytail is as round as a dime, but when I let it down, the
LIFT I get really looks great!!! It looks full, pretty and with my long
thin hair, this is important.
I hope this gives some ladies the encouragement they need that this
hairloss process does pass and that you can turn this into a positive
situation.
I love my fake 'big hair'!!!!
Susan

A young wife sat on a porch in Waycross, Georgia on a summer day, drinking iced
tea and visiting with her Mother. As they talked about
gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman,
for goodness sake, a grown-up, not a young girl who needs girlfriends! Surely my
husband and the family we'll start will be all I need to make my life
worthwhile!'
open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes, they will even break the rules and
walk beside you. Or come in and carry you out.
family, and friends bless my life! The world wouldn't be the same without them,
and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no
idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much
we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.

Welcome to the group! I am sorry your having trouble getting all
that mess straight, I sarted seeing doubles trying to read all you
were going through. I am having signs of diabetes, but not sure. I
get dizzy after every time I eat, especially if I have skipped a
meal. But can you get dizzy and eat to make it go away? I had to eat
a piece of bread this morning cause I just got so dizzy and got a
headache! Anyhoot, I haven't been checked for diabetes went to the
doctor yesterday if they say nothing about it when they call
tomorrow with my thyroid results I am going to mention it. Unless my
symptoms get worse. I been having a time with my insurance too. Hell
I was told I wasn't enrolled with mine but they paid for my doctor
visit yesterday LMAO! I have put on 20 pds in less than 2 months,
could that be diabetes?? I was 220 beginning of christmas just found
out I am 241. I about cried! THat sux! I wanna do something before I
hit 300. I only eat like one time a day, but lately been having to
eat a little something here and there to keep from getting dizzy.
And headaches, o lord! I'm not being twice an hour like I was
yesterday though. Less frequent. I was at the doctors office
yesterday 3 hours and peed 6 times. LOL I was getting aggravated!
Whats your weight and height. And your goal. I am 5 ft 2, you know
my weight, and my goal is 130 pds. I have been trying to convince my
husband to like skinny women cause before I die I will be skinny
DAMMIT and he loves BBW!! LOL
Well goodluck on getting your insurance straight and all. Will be
nice chatting with you.
Andrea

Mary we live at opposites ends of the state I live in Northwest Al in what is
known as the Shoals. I have been to Mobile twice for weekend trips. Nice to
see another Bama in the group.
Tricia
bosarge3@... wrote:
Becca, what part of Bama?
Mary A. B.
LAP RNY 3/22/03
Dr. Steve Weinstein, MD.
Mobile, Alabama
BMI 65/43
386/265-121LBS.
59 years old

Hi, My name is Janet, and I haven't had the surgery yet, but my MD
told me there was a 10 lb. limit on lifting, with a lap. I told him,
my purse weighs more than that!
Due the nature of my job, I will have to be out the entire 6 weeks
of healing time to avoid getting a hernia. I was also told I will get
60% of full time salary through disability benefits.
I do not have "small" children; mine are 7 and 9. I am surprised to
see how many people are from Florida, even many are from Miami. I am
in Miami, and work at Baptist, where a few of you have had the
surgery. I am going out of town, and I do not want my co-workers
treating me post-op. I saw one lady who had hers done at Kendall
Regional (no further comment). It is wonderful to see so many people
that are living around me that have had it done!

HELLO FAMILY
i am new to this but i sure have alot of questions.I am 29 and i am a
single mother of three.I have my first evalution on the 3rd I weigh
330 and hopefully would get approved by medicaid.The one thing i am
really scared of is complicatons postup I have a 20 month old baby
that i need to take care of and i was wondering if i would be able to
take care of him postup. if anyone could answer my question i would
be grateful thank you AMY.

Hannah, I'm ready for your suggestion, zucchini, bell peppers, onions,
garlic & topped w/cheese. My mouth is watering! I didn't pre-cook the
zucchini, as the lasagna cooks for an hour. I just sliced very thinly
longways. Some of the thicker pieces were crunchier, but I still loved it.
I have got to go to Trader Joe's. My mom's been recommending it for years,
and I've never stopped. For now, the zucchini lasagna was as creative as I
get, but I may get some diet cookbooks out and see what I can find.
Joan
LAP RNY 11/18/03
Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA
282pre-op/275surg/236/140

Thanks Brenda! I am not looking forward to the Upper GI. My hubby had
to have one to get his gall bladder taken out, and he said it was not
very pleasant. I just cant believe that I am almost there. There
looking at getting me in early May!! I cant wait! I am very excited
about it.
Take Care
Chasta
pre-op

Let us know what your dr tells u about your thyroid, I'm on thyroid meds too and
wondered if we lose the weight will this throw our thyroid readings will go back
to normal after we have lost part of our weight. I would think that u would
have to stay on the meds for awhile after surgery till your system gets use to
the weight loss, but I am curious to hear what he tells u.
Tricia in AL
SouthernAngelsPC@... wrote: For those of you who say you drink 6/8 protein
drinks a day.First of all When
did you have surgery and how much weight have you lost (Just curious if the
added protein is helping from others i have talked to...even though I know
everyone is different) second Do you mean scoops or actual drinks? because I
mix
mine 2 scoops at a time (35 grams of protein) and drink 2a day Which is 70
grams of protein. Plus what I eat in foods! I am required to get 80 by my
surgeon. If its a day where I can not eat as much I do 2 1/2 of these
shakes..which
is equal 5 scoops of protein powder (87.5 grams of protein)...Should I increase
this? The weight loss has slowed down A LOT. I am 3 months out and I am
loosing on average 3 pounds a week right now.
Also, Anyone know if i had to take thyroid meds before surgery and have not
been put back on them yet if that would slow the weight loss down? I am waiting
on a call back from my surgeon. That was one of the questions I had yesterday
but the teeny bopper didnt know the answer to that one either!!
Thanks...You guys are the best!!
Crystal
11/18/03
365/290/2nd mini goal 250

Well, I have cramping, not as much as pre-op. And I had my period last
week, but started to spot and passed a clot....and the thought did cross
my mind that "God, I hope this is not the thing to come"....I did note
that my cramps are not as bad...there was a time when I would cramp so
bad I would have to take 10 Extra Strength Tylenol and go to bed with a
heating pad, which resulted in blisters at times....thank God that part
of my life is over! The doctor indicated that previously when I had
cramps that I had them so strong due to my weight and the extra estrogen
I was generating. So, when we start to lose weight our bodies take some
time to get use to the change in our estrogen level.
Hope this helps...I seem to be rambling...
Carol Matar
Post Op 10/31/03
405/343/135

Hi RaeShel
I am having the exact same issues. I had surgery just less than a month
before you and I can eat anything now. Nothing makes me dump or vomit. Steak
is
the ONLY thing that doesnt set well, so I just dont eat it. Sugar, bring it
on. Fats, fried foods, lactose, carbs, breads, rice....all these things that
other post ops cant tolerate are no problem for my tummy. Also I can eat much
larger amounts than I had anticipated. Its worrisome, but thus far I am still
losing. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone. As for me, I am
exercising hard and just joined weight watchers again last night. I dont plan
on
following the WW plan exactly, but I love having the accountability and
support (my surgery took place two hours from my home and there are no in person
RNY
support groups around here).
~ami~
Lap RNY 5-13-03
261/179/130
In a message dated 2/18/2004 6:35:37 PM Central Standard Time,
fossey2@... writes:
Hey guys,
I am 8 months post op and have discovered that I can eat
ANYTHING! The last couple of days my body has seriously been craving
food! I have had my share of ups and downs when it comes to control
with food...but these last couple of days has just been KILLER! Even
though in comparison to pre surgery I am not eating nearly as much as
I was, I still hate that feeling of being out of control. It scares
me to think that I may be returning to my old habits....sure, today I
binged on a snack pack of doritos...but 2 years from now who's to say
it won't be an entire bag! And the sucky thing is...I don't get sick!
I can have a HUGE amount of carbs (what would be considered huge
after surgery)and it doesn't seem to bother me one bit! I think this
scares me more than anything. I work out like a maniac 6 days a week
so I think that is what has kept me on the losing side this whole
time. But I still hate being a slave to my cravings. I know cutting
out sugar can "detox" me, but I do that and for no rhyme or reason I
have strong cravings again!!!!!! Anyone else experience this? And if
so, how do you deal?
Thanks!
RaeShel;O)
373/193/155?
Surgery June 6th, 2003

Hi Becky, I never dreamed it would take this long, I've never been big on
patience lol, I hope my insurance doesn't deny me, if the dr has on his charts
morbid obese then that sounds like I need the surgery. I always hated them
putting that in my chart but if it gets me approval with the Insurance it will
be worth the embarassment. My granddaughter won't know what to think when she
sees me with my weight off, I remember a couple of yrs ago she said "naynay will
I have a big butt like u when I get big"? out of the mouth of babes.
Tricia in AL
bokaygal@... wrote:Hi Tricia....
Nice to read your post tonight. You asked about a long waiting list for this
type of surgery. In the area I'm from, it seems to depend on the surgeon.
Mine is Dr. Juarez and he is booked about 5 or 6 months ahead it seems. I
got a surgery date in Sept and am having surgery on the 19th of Feb, so about 5
months. I first began looking into this whole process in January 2003, so
the wait time from beginning to end will have been about 13 monhts. That
included a denial from the insurance, and an appeal process. Good luck to
you.....keep us posted! :)
Becky from AZ
In a message dated 2/5/2004 10:39:07 PM US Mountain Standard Time,
mknaynay98@... writes:

Does anyone have Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois? If so, did you
have any problems getting approved?

I use to take Ambien 20 mg but after about a yr my body got use to it and it
wasn't as effective, now I take Serqouel 200mg and I'm doing really good on
this. I suffer from a sleeping disorder have been doing it since 96 and I have
found that it works out for me not to go to bed till I'm totally exhausted
otherwise I just toss and turn and get things on my mind. I'm up most nites
till 2am or even 3am and then i sleep thru till 7am when my hubby gets up then I
will lie back down when he leaves and usually can get another 2hrs in. If your
body doesn't go into the delta sleep pattern which is stage4 your body is not
getting the rest it needs for your body to heal or for u to feel rested.
Tricia in AL
laredo_36042 <laredo_36042@...
i've ever used. And also , have you
had the sleep amina test.You might need too , it's help me. I use a c-
pap machine at night . it helps 110%. Phyllis

I'VE DONE EVERTHING THAT THEY TOLD ME TO DO. THE ONLY THING THAT I
DON'T HAVE IS A LETTER SAYING THAT I WAS UNDER DOCTORS CARE FOR MY
WEIGHT. I NEVER SAW A DOCTOR FOR MY WEIGHT(I WONDER IF THIS WILL
HURT MY CHANCES OF HAVING THE SURGERY). I'VE ALWAYS BEEN ON HOME
DIETS.(THEY ALWAYS FAILED).BEING 458 POUNDS. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME
I ASK FOR HELP. FINDING THE GBF WEB SITE WAS A GODSEND.
WISH ME LUCK

Hey I am Candi too!!!!!! Now I know why I kept reading messages that were
addressed to me that didn't make sense!!!!!
I guess we will have to use out last initial!! :o)
My hubby waffled as well. Mostly because he was scared something might go
wrong. Which is very reasonable. He never told me not to do it. But he
did say make sure you are doing it for you and not for me. He really didn't
seem to care if I lost weight or not. But he did want me to be healthy. So
try talking to your hubby from that perspective.
I would never have done the surgery for just the cosmetic benefit of losing
the weight. But the health reasons...I no longer have High Blood Pressure,
arthritis, my glucose levels are finally returning to normal (I am averaging
115 now.....no insulin for the past month), I sleep well for the first time
in years, I can run up my stair without feeling like I am going to
die...Hell I can even stand up from the floor without the aide of chair or
table.
Keep your chin up and get hubby motivated to be your partner in creating a
healthy life for your whole family!!!
Candi

Lori,
I had the flu and I went to the doctor. She gave me some cough medicine. She
told me to take Tylenol liquid. You can ask your drugist and they can help you
tell them about the surgery. They should know anyways so no sugar will be in
your drugs and what drugs you can take with the vitamins your on with this
surgery. They are very helpful. At least my drugest is.
Joyce

Bonita, I did home diets and exercise. I wrote down everything I did for the
pass 10 years and gave it to my family doctor she sent it to the surgeron and
insurance staying I needed this surgery.
Joyce
bonita458 <bonita458@...
I'VE DONE EVERTHING THAT THEY TOLD ME TO DO. THE ONLY THING THAT I
DON'T HAVE IS A LETTER SAYING THAT I WAS UNDER DOCTORS CARE FOR MY
WEIGHT. I NEVER SAW A DOCTOR FOR MY WEIGHT(I WONDER IF THIS WILL
HURT MY CHANCES OF HAVING THE SURGERY). I'VE ALWAYS BEEN ON HOME
DIETS.(THEY ALWAYS FAILED).BEING 458 POUNDS. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME
I ASK FOR HELP. FINDING THE GBF WEB SITE WAS A GODSEND.
WISH ME LUCK

For the last 3 weeks I have been watching my scale go down a half a pound
and then up a half a pound. Up and Down and Up and Down.....I am telling you
the whole thing is making me dizzy!!!! :o)
Sorry folks....a little plateau humor.
Candi

Hi Tricia.....June will be here before you know it!!!!!! Pre-op, I had to have a
Psyche eval, labwork, dietician consult, athletic trainer consult, upper GI, and
chest x-ray. It all went pretty quickly. I know a lot of people that have to
have sleep studies, but I did not have any history of apnea......Hope this
helps...sherri

Hi Sherri, I figured there was more folks to see lol, the only one I see I might
have problems with is the atheletic director-with having fibromyalgia the only
excerise I get is in the water and walking so don't know if that's going to be a
problem or not. I guess I will have to have the sleep apnea done again, it's
been 2 yrs for I missed my appt for this yr. What I was doing was downsizing on
drs, I felt I had too many, I don't think there would be a problem with it
except that I hardly ever use the c-pap machine it and sleep don't seem to go
together for me. I don't understand why they don't let u go ahead and see all
of these folks before u see the dr. I don't know what they will do because I
would have to find someone local for all this for we live about 3hrs from the
surgeons office. How long after u did all this did they set up your surgery? I
have never been patient, it's one of my failings but guess I will have to in
this case. It's just I have myself built up for
this, I know I will drive my hubby nuts before June 12th. Good luck with your
surgery, keep us posted when u are able.
Tricia in AL
sherri edling <yorkiegal2003@...
before you know it!!!!!! Pre-op, I had to have a Psyche eval, labwork, dietician
consult, athletic trainer consult, upper GI, and chest x-ray. It all went pretty
quickly. I know a lot of people that have to have sleep studies, but I did not
have any history of apnea......Hope this helps...sherri

I am going to my orientation for the gastric bypass surgery next
friday. are there any good books to get on the subject? I have kaiser.
anybody know the process for them?
thanks can you email me at vrcat50@...?

Hi,
I'm 3 weeks out and I can drink FLAT DIET MT. DEW. Is this ok. My
doctor says not to drink things with carbonation in it but there is
none in my FLAT diet Mt. Dew.
Lori

hi

Lori,my sons dr told him that mountain dew was the worse drink for your kidneys
and bladders out of all the drinks out there Mt Dew was the worse, but my son is
a mt dew holic and still drinks them just not as many as he use too. So I don't
know if that helps any or not.
Tricia in AL (where it's snowing yeah!!!!!!!)
gracybell93 <Myangelmom93@...
I'm 3 weeks out and I can drink FLAT DIET MT. DEW. Is this ok. My
doctor says not to drink things with carbonation in it but there is
none in my FLAT diet Mt. Dew.
Lori

Hi!
I'm in Bama also! Where are you and just how much snow are we talking about?
Sharon
Lineville, AL in east central part of the state near the GA border

Hi Sharon,
We live in nw AL near the Tenn and Miss. line. We don't see much snow around
here last yr we had a dusting we get a lot of ice around here. It's just
spitten snow, that's what my mil use to tell my kids but they are calling for
1-2 inches after mn. We lived in GA at one time but it was close to the Tenn
line, just outside of Chattanooga. I'm originally from Ohio but met my hubby in
college there in Chattanooga so have never left the South except to visit of
course. My granddaughter just called me a little earlier to tell me it was
snowing at her house, she hasn't seen much snow, so she was excited. Her daddy
called me next he had been out of town on a job and they couldn't get back home
had to pull into a motel for the nite, but he said there was a 14 car pile up
not far from where they had come thru earlier, he said I'm carrying a million
dollars worth of tools and have other men's lives to consider too , I'm glad
they pulled off, he was about 2hrs from home. He was wanting
to get home and take his wife out for not only Valentine's day but it's also
her b/day. They live in ARK. Have u had the surgery yet? I'm pre-op won't
even get in to see the dr till June and it's killing me this waiting. Looks
like they would see u first to see if u even qualifiy. I'm afraid I might get
my hopes up and then they won't do it. Well better close for now hope u have a
good nite.
Tricia in AL
"Sharon M. Estes" <estes@...
I'm in Bama also! Where are you and just how much snow are we talking about?
Sharon
Lineville, AL in east central part of the state near the GA border

That's wonderful that they are getting u in that fast, I hope and pray that I
have some helping angels too about getting mine moved up.
Keep us posted.
Tricia in AL
positivejc <jcapers@...
Just checking in to let everyone know I had my endo today and what a
breeze. Lovely little sedative and QUICK. I found out I do have
GERD, which is no big surprise. Been kind of sleepy all day, but I
have the day off from work, so I had a nice nap and I am relaxing.
I can't believe that 5 weeks from today, I will be on the losing
side. It feels like I've been in the process of moving toward this
surgery for years, but it's really only been 4 months. I've been
very blessed that things have moved forward so quickly. I only have
my normal pre-op tests and then the big day! I feel like all my
guardian angels have lined up to help me with this. Bless them all.
Thanks for all the support.
Jayne
Lap RNY 3/12/04

Tricia, I actually had my surgry in Sept. 2003...am down 122 lbs so far. yes,
you may have to have the sleep study again, as it was 2 yrs. ago.....I bet the
athletic consult will be able to help you, tho...sherri

Tricia,
I know that Mt. Dew has more caffine than any other drink but I do
get Diet Caffine Free Mt. Dew and stir all the fizz out of it and let
it sit in the fridge with the lid off. No fizz at all, no caffine,
no sugar, could it be all bad?
Lori

Just wanted to let everyone know that I have 2 2 pounds jugs of nectar for
sale on ebay cheap. I paid $24 a piece for them and I am selling them cheap.
Apple ecstacy and carribbean cooler flavors. Check them out :) eBay item
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Tracey :)
317/ 275 / ?

My surgery is in 12 days and i'm freaking out! everything has gone wrong
since day one.
i STILL haven't met my surgeon! every time i go see him they say he stepped
out and i see his assistant or an intern! Cleveland Clinic in Florida has been
a nightmare! i've re-done all my tests twice because they lose my paperwork.
they call me and tell me that i need to meet with some dr. i tell them i
already met with that dr. last week. they say "sorry didn't know" i keep
thinking
everything is a sign not to go through with it. they told me i can't be sick two
weeks prior to surgery, well guess what i'm sick! is that another sign? i've
been through hell with my job for the time off. i've been through hell with
the hospital. i keep calling the hospital to ask questions and they NEVER return
my calls!
what should i do? after seven months of this crap should i cancell my
surgery. it's only 12 days away. or should i just go through with it? i haven't
slept
in days worrying about this.

I think you need to find a new doctor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mindi
277/168/125??
Lap RNY 6/26/03

That's wonderful to hear Mary, that's what I'm praying for that some of my
health problems would go away by having this surgery. I'm so happy for u that u
are doing so well. I guess on the day of the surgery we can look and say this
is the first day of re